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Tara Renze

Emotional Intelligence Expert

Tara Renze

Tara Renze’s speaking fee:Under $25,000

Tara Renze is an author, keynote speaker, emotional intelligence & positive intelligence practitioner, podcaster, thought-leader, wife and mother and is redefining how we unleash purpose, level up our success and create sustainable happiness and fulfillment in all aspects of our lives. After two decades of success in corporate leadership and social selling, she started writing and keynote speaking to empower others to "be who they came to be" and create, own and live the life they desire, envision and deserve. Tara has a true passion and talent for guiding others to harness and realize their full potential.

Early Beginnings and Corporate Success:

Tara Renze's journey to empowerment and inspiration began in the competitive arena of corporate America. At CareerBuilder.com, her exceptional leadership and sales acumen were quickly recognized, earning her the coveted "Sales Leader of the Year" accolade. Tara's impact expanded as she took the helm of the national new hire sales training program and served as a national sales manager consultant, shaping the future of sales leadership with her innovative approaches and insights.

Transition to Social Selling and Entrepreneurship:

Building on her corporate success, Tara ventured into the world of social selling with Stella & Dot. Here, she founded a nationwide, multi-million-dollar business, blending her corporate expertise with entrepreneurial spirit. This phase of her career not only showcased her business acumen but also her ability to connect with and inspire a new generation of women entrepreneurs.

Current Role as a Beacon of Authenticity and Empowerment:

Today, Tara Renze is a beacon for those seeking to "be who they came to be." Her grandmother's transformative note to her son in 2007 became the cornerstone of Tara's mission. As an author, keynote speaker, and emotional intelligence practitioner, Tara has dedicated her life to empowering others. Her work is supported by her impressive educational background, with a degree from the University of Kansas and leadership studies at the Wharton School and Kellogg Graduate School of Management.

Tara's influence extends through her books, such as "Be Who You Came To Be" and the collaborative children's book "Be Who You Came To Bee," along with her eagerly awaited "The Butterfly Goal Effect." Her "Be Who You Came To Be" merchandise line further embodies the spirit of her empowering message.

Tara Renze’s Speech Topics

Be Who You Came To Be™ Where Personal Growth Fuels Professional Performance

Be Who You Came to Be (verb):

  • To lead from authenticity instead of approval.
  • To grow beyond titles, pressure, and comparison.
  • To choose fulfillment over fleeting happiness.
  • To show up with emotional clarity, confidence, and courage.

This keynote is a powerful call to realignment. Because high performance isn’t built on hustle alone. It’s built on identity.

When individuals strengthen emotional intelligence and mental fitness, they stop being ruled by fear, doubt, and self-sabotage -and start leading with intention. With nearly 80% of daily thoughts negative and repetitive, the true competitive advantage is learning to recognize those narratives and choose how to respond.

Authenticity doesn’t just transform individuals — it drives organizational results. When people know who they are and why they matter, culture thrives, innovation ignites, and performance rises.

In this keynote, audiences will learn how to:

  • Strengthen mental fitness and quiet the inner critic
  • Redefine success through fulfillment, not burnout
  • Replace comparison with confidence
  • Self-assess with clarity and own their growth
  • Turn setbacks into bold, strategic action

This keynote follows Tara’s signature framework - Create. Own. Live.

Create – Redefine success and give yourself permission to evolve.

Own – Eliminate self-doubt and take control of your narrative.

Live – Step into bold goals and lead with purpose under pressure.

This isn’t motivation. It’s mental discipline. It’s emotional intelligence in action. It’s the edge that powers sustainable performance.

Beyond the Keynote

Participants receive a customized digital workbook featuring tools that extend impact long after the stage lights dim.

  • Positive Intelligence® Saboteur Assessment & Report
  • “You Are Not Your Thoughts” mindset tracker
  • Bold Goal action planner
  • 14-Day Mental Fitness Challenge

The Human Advantage: Emotional Intelligence Practices That Power Performance

In a world accelerated by AI and constant disruption, technical skill is expected.

Emotional regulation is the differentiator.

The Human Advantage is Tara Renze’s signature performance framework — a set of practical, repeatable emotional intelligence practices that elevate leadership, culture, and results when pressure is high and margin is thin.

Because in the age of artificial intelligence, emotional intelligence is the competitive advantage.

This isn’t theory. It’s the human advantage that drives performance.

The Reality Leaders Face

Today’s leaders are navigating:

  • Rapid change and AI disruption
  • Burnout and emotional fatigue
  • Generational tension and communication breakdown
  • High performance expectations with little margin for error

Many were promoted for what they produce — not how they lead. And under pressure, unregulated leadership erodes trust, clarity, and culture faster than any market condition.

The Human Advantage Practices

Tara introduces seven core EQ practices that elite leaders consistently choose — especially when it’s hardest:

Ordinary Is Extraordinary

-Excellence isn’t flashy. It’s disciplined consistency.

Get Mentally Fit

-You are not your thoughts. Regulate before you respond.

Lead Yourself

-No one cares about your growth more than you do. Self-awareness is the advantage.

Protect Your Relationships

-Connection drives performance. Conflict handled well builds trust.

Assume Good Intent

-Operate from curiosity, not accusation.

Find Your Raving Fans

-Stop performing for everyone. Influence the right people deeply.

Dare to Become

-Growth requires courage. High performers evolve beyond their current identity.

And woven through it all: Leadership Is Love. Leave people better than you found them.

Because leadership isn’t about control. It’s about impact.

What Leaders Walk Away With

  • Tools to regulate emotion and set the tone under stress
  • A practical method to turn conflict into connection (ACE Method)
  • A mental fitness framework to quiet self-sabotage
  • A clear mirror for intentional growth
  • A renewed understanding that culture is shaped by daily behavior, not slogans

The Human Advantage doesn’t teach leaders what to do. It strengthens who they choose to be under pressure. And that’s what sustains performance.

The Butterfly Goal Effect™: Where Personal Alignment Drives Professional Impact

The Butterfly Goal Effect™ helps individuals move beyond surface-level achievement and set goals rooted in identity, alignment, and purpose.

When people are clear on who they are and what truly drives them, they don’t just perform — they take ownership, innovate, and contribute at a higher level.

Because when personal alignment is strong, professional impact becomes inevitable.

This isn’t about chasing more goals.

It’s about setting the right ones.

The Challenge:

Many high achievers have checked every box.

Titles earned. Metrics hit. Goals accomplished.

And yet burnout, disengagement, and goal fatigue remain.

Like a caterpillar in the chrysalis, we are built to evolve. But somewhere along the way, after the promotions and achievements, many stop stretching. Comfort replaces curiosity. Output replaces growth. Performance becomes hustle-driven instead of purpose-driven.

And cultures feel it.

The Framework: Butterfly Goals

Tara introduces Butterfly Goals™ — transformational personal and professional goals that stretch individuals beyond comfort zones, spark fulfillment, and fuel innovation across organizations.

Blending emotional intelligence, neuroscience, and powerful storytelling, she shows audiences how challenge activates fulfillment — and how growth rewires the brain for resilience, creativity, and sustainable performance.

When individuals stretch into their potential:

  • Confidence rises
  • Innovation ignites
  • Engagement deepens
  • Cultures strengthen
  • Results accelerate

When people are inspired to grow and stretch, they don’t leave — they lean in.

Create It. Own It. Live It:

Create It - Understand the science behind transformational growth.

Learn how to set goals that reignite curiosity, courage, and innovation.

Own It- Build the mental fitness required to overcome fear, rejection, and self-doubt.

Silence inner saboteurs. Take bold, aligned action. (No one cares more about your success than you do.)

Live It- Shift from chasing happiness to pursuing fulfillment.

Embrace evolution over arrival.

Turn setbacks into comebacks and growth into lasting impact.

Audience Takeaways

Participants will:

  • Understand the neuroscience and emotional intelligence behind goal achievement
  • Learn to set transformational Butterfly Goals™
  • Build mental fitness to overcome fear and rejection
  • Shift from hustle-driven burnout to fulfillment-driven performance
  • Inspire cultures of innovation, courage, and continuous evolution

Because cultures that value growth as much as output don’t just perform — they thrive.

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